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(Transit) Venus opposite Mars / Mars opposite Venus

The Dance of Desire and Conflict


5-6 days.

How often:

At least once a year.

If the transit could speak:

"When passion meets challenge, the heart and the will must find harmony."

Personal development PDF for this transit:


Venus opposite Mars is an intense and provocative transit that heightens the dynamics between the feminine and masculine energies within us, as well as in our relationships. This aspect creates a tug-of-war between the desire for harmony, affection, and pleasure (Venus) and the drive for action, assertiveness, and independence (Mars). It can manifest as a strong attraction filled with challenges or a conflict that needs a careful balance to maintain peace. The essence of this transit is about reconciling opposing forces, requiring us to navigate between compromise and assertion. The friction generated can lead to creative sparks and dynamic interactions, but also to conflicts if not handled with awareness and respect for differing needs and perspectives.

what to do

  • Strive for balance in relationships by giving equal importance to your needs and those of others.

  • Use creative outlets to express the heightened emotional energy.

  • Engage in open and honest communication to resolve conflicts.

  • Practice patience and diplomacy to handle the intense interactions this transit can bring.

  • Focus on finding common ground in relationships, using the energy for cooperative projects.

what to avoid

  • Avoid making impulsive decisions in relationships.

  • Steer clear of confrontations that arise from ego clashes.

  • Resist the urge to be overly aggressive or submissive.

  • Do not ignore relationship issues that may surface; address them head-on.

  • Avoid letting frustrations in one area of life spill over into other areas.

  • Struggles with balancing independence with intimacy needs.

  • Issues arising from suppressed or unexpressed anger or desires.

  • Potential for conflicts in relationships due to a clash of wills or desires.


  1. Self-reflection: Begin by identifying areas where you feel conflicted between your desires and your actions. Understanding these can help in managing your reactions.

  2. Communication exercises: Practice expressing your desires and frustrations in a constructive manner. Role-playing different scenarios can be beneficial.

  3. Conflict resolution: Learn and apply techniques to resolve disputes amicably. Consider mediation if conflicts escalate.

  4. Emotional regulation: Develop strategies to handle impulsive reactions, such as taking deep breaths, stepping away from the situation momentarily, or engaging in physical activity to dissipate anger.

  5. Relationship counseling: If relationship issues persist, seeking professional help can provide new perspectives and tools for improvement.



  • "I balance my needs with the needs of others to create harmony in my relationships."

  • "I embrace both my gentle and assertive sides."

  • "I communicate my desires clearly and listen to others with an open heart."

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