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(Transit) Venus quincunx Mars / Mars quincunx Venus

A Dance of Desire and Discipline


3 days.

How often:

At least 2 times a year.

If the transit could speak:

"Harmonizing the yin and the yang within, I seek balance in the challenge."

Personal development PDF for this transit:


Venus quincunx Mars transit is a delicate balance between the feminine and masculine energies within us, which may seem initially disharmonious but ultimately teaches valuable lessons about integration. This aspect creates a dynamic tension between Venus's values of harmony, affection, and pleasure, and Mars's principles of action, aggression, and drive. It's like a dance where the partners are not yet in sync, resulting in moments of awkwardness but also potential for growth. This transit challenges us to refine how we assert ourselves in relationships and pursue our desires. It's about adjusting our approaches to getting what we want without steamrolling over others' feelings or compromising our values. We are tasked to find creative compromises and adapt our methods to achieve a more profound equilibrium.

what to do

  • Communicate openly about your needs and desires without being overly aggressive.

  • Embrace flexibility in how you achieve your goals, considering others' perspectives.

  • Use this time to reflect on your relationship dynamics and make necessary adjustments.

  • Engage in activities that require cooperation and compromise.

  • Practice patience and diplomacy in all interactions.

what to avoid

  • Suppressing your true desires just to keep the peace.

  • Being overly aggressive or confrontational in asserting your needs.

  • Ignoring the tension in relationships; address issues head-on.

  • Making impulsive decisions that might disrupt harmony.

  • Overcompensating in one area (either aggression or compliance).

  • Struggles with balancing assertiveness with empathy.

  • Difficulty in expressing desires or anger healthily.

  • Tendency to fluctuate between passive and aggressive responses.


  1. Acknowledge the internal conflict between your desires (Venus) and your methods of obtaining them (Mars).

  2. Reflect on past instances where this imbalance has caused issues in your relationships.

  3. Use mindfulness or meditation to stay centered and calm during interactions.

  4. Seek counseling if repetitive patterns of conflict arise, focusing on communication skills.

  5. Channel the tension into creative or physical outlets that allow for expression in constructive ways.



  • "I balance my desires with empathy towards others."

  • "Every interaction is an opportunity for harmony and growth."

  • "I embrace flexibility in how I pursue my goals, always considering the well-being of others."

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