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(Transit) Venus square Chiron / Chiron square Venus

Healing Love's Wounds


2 days.

How often:

At least twice a year.

If the transit could speak:

"If love's labor is not lost, then what do these pains teach us?"

Personal development PDF for this transit:


Venus influences our relationships, values, and our approach to love and finances. Transits of Venus affect our interpersonal interactions, bringing attention to the harmony or discord in our relationships and our patterns of spending and enjoyment.

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Chiron, often called the "Wounded Healer," represents our deepest wounds and our efforts to heal these wounds. Its transits offer opportunities for healing and learning from past traumas, making us wiser and more compassionate healers ourselves. A Chiron transit might involve revisiting painful experiences, but it provides the means to find healing through understanding and releasing these past hurts.

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type of aspect:

A square is formed when planets are 90 degrees apart, creating a challenging angle that often results in tension and conflict. This aspect can force action through crisis or confrontation, pushing for resolution or change. While squares may indicate struggles or obstacles, they are also powerful motivators for growth and can help build resilience.


Venus square Chiron is a deeply transformative aspect that challenges us to heal our relationship wounds and redefine what love means to us. This transit often brings painful experiences or memories related to love and relationships to the forefront of our consciousness. The discomfort you might feel during this period is not just a sign of turmoil but a call to address unresolved issues that hinder your emotional and romantic fulfillment. It's a time when the wounds of the past, particularly those associated with rejection, abandonment, or low self-esteem, become activated, offering a unique opportunity for deep emotional healing and personal growth. Venus, the planet of love and harmony, squaring Chiron, the wounded healer, indicates that through pain, significant healing and learning can occur, allowing for more authentic and profound connections with others.

what to do

  • Reflect on your past relationships to identify patterns that may be causing pain.

  • Engage in open and honest conversations about vulnerabilities with your loved ones.

  • Practice self-love and compassion; prioritize activities that make you feel loved and valued.

  • Seek therapeutic or counseling sessions to work through deep-seated emotional wounds.

  • Use creative outlets such as art or writing to express and process your feelings.

what to avoid

  • Avoid ignoring or suppressing the pain that this transit brings up.

  • Steer clear of blaming others for your emotional state; focus on personal healing.

  • Resist the urge to rush into new relationships or commitments without self-reflection.

  • Do not dwell on past regrets or what-ifs, which can prevent healing.

  • Avoid harsh self-criticism or setting unrealistic standards for yourself and others.

  • Fear of intimacy or commitment due to past hurts.

  • Struggles with self-worth and acceptance in relationships.

  • Repeating unhealthy relationship patterns unknowingly.


  1. Acknowledge your wounds: Begin by recognizing the areas where you feel hurt or inadequate in relationships.

  2. Emotional processing: Allow yourself to fully experience and express the emotions related to these wounds without judgment.

  3. Learning and integration: Identify the lessons these experiences offer and integrate them into your understanding of self and relationships.

  4. Establish boundaries: Learn to set healthy boundaries that honor your needs and protect your emotional well-being.

  5. Continuous practice: Healing is an ongoing process. Regularly check in with yourself and adjust your practices as needed to foster healthier relationships.



  • "I am worthy of love and heal from my past with grace."

  • "Each relationship teaches me something valuable about myself."

  • "I allow myself to move forward with love and forgiveness in my heart."

spiritual mentoring

There is no specific mentoring for this transit.

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